Have you ever wondered what exactly other men tell women when trying to make their acquaintance? Well, women definitely have a way of not getting it when they should but you can’t help but suspect that guys sometimes do get it all wrong. I will not concern myself with the naive women who simply put up an attitude when the situation doesn’t demand one; I bother myself with the alternative.

From research I have discovered that you will be appalled by what some guys tell women! From what women have told me I have categorised a man’s approach into 3 tiers. The first group contains men who go in like wussies, talk like babies and probably lack self confidence. They are bold (or stupid) enough to approach a woman; they don’t have any conversation skills and don’t when to walk away to avoid further embarrassment. This class of guys mostly get negative responses from women. Often times when they get a positive response it is borne out of pity or just plain trips for the woman.

The second is group belongs to the men who know what they are doing; they are confident but they don’t always have the right starts. However they are quick to capitalize on a window of opportunity in any conversation; the key for them is to get the lady talking and take it from there. They also know when to exit if things are not going their way. Most times they come off well and are able to create an attractive impression on a woman.

The last group belongs to the ones who are full of themselves because they are good-looking, rich or in a lower social stratum. For the ones who percieve themselves to belong to lower social class they present themselves anyhow after all he that is down needs fear no fall. For the others they talk like they are Gods answer to every woman’s prayer (really for most naive women they are); from minute one they impose themselves on their subject and take no precautions. Often times they are blunt. Women react to them in a variety of ways; some go with the flow and milk them for all its worth; some fall for them or for the impressions create.

Finally let me say that I do not claim to have the 411 on what exactly women need to hear to give you audience. In my opinion it is a function of the place, time, opportunity and above all the woman herself so there will never be static answers. As such for those who do not relish the challenge in variety, sticking to a particular brand of women (for example universal girls) will guarantee that you can approach women with the same method over and over again without failure! However if you intend to get to know women across different social levels then you have to be diverse in your approach and even at that you won’t win all the time.